When we act on expectations and assumptions that are off base, it sets us up to feel like a failure, but all we really need is a fresh perspective
and some reality-based strategies to build our “want to”.
These 4 myths may be holding you hostage, sabotaging your success before you even get rolling.
The problem is that we’re looking for a magic button that will help us “get motivated” or “have more willpower”.
Here’s why most of what you’ve been taught about motivation, willpower, and focus actually creates procrastination.
Nobody wants to disappoint someone, or hurt their feelings, but continually making exceptions to the rule, lowering standards, and not enforcing boundaries is not helping that person you’re leading.
When we have difficulty enforcing healthy and appropriate limits, or consequences, there’s a high probability we’re avoiding facing our own pain and fear.