About

I didn’t set out to become a guide for women recovering from narcissistic abuse. I was a former Pastor, working with small business owners helping them develop their leadership and their teams. In fact, for a long time, I didn’t even realize that narcissistic abuse was what I was living through.

It wasn’t just one relationship — it was multiple. In both personal and professional settings. From men and from women. The patterns were there… but I didn’t have language for them yet.

I did what I thought a wise, godly woman should do. I applied my background in recovery ministry. I gave grace. I extended the benefit of the doubt. I tried to problem-solve. I prayed. I pursued counseling. I worked on myself. I had the hard conversations, hoping for real change. But the more I tried to make it work, the more confused I became and the more traumatized I felt.

My confidence eroded. I started second-guessing my judgment… and questioning everything I once believed was true about me.
The fire that once fueled my calling? It didn’t just flicker — it nearly disappeared.

I held it together for a long time — doing what needed to be done, surviving behind a smile. But I was exhausted. Depleted. Disoriented and disheartened. And deep down, I started to wonder…Had I disqualified myself?

I kept asking God: “What’s wrong with me?” when the real question was: “What happened to me?” That question changed everything.

It launched me into a deeper kind of healing — one that reshaped how I saw myself, how I heard God’s voice, and how I rebuilt my life.

Over the years, I’ve deepened my ability to walk women through this kind of transformation — drawing not only from personal experience, but from decades of real-world leadership, mentoring, and spiritual formation.

The work I do now with women is both structured and Spirit-led — a process of healing the heart, renewing the mind, and rebuilding identity.

We untangle false beliefs, address grief that’s often hidden or minimized, and break long-standing patterns from past relationships and family dynamics. We clarify what’s healthy, what’s holy, and what no longer gets to define her. And as she heals, she begins to rise — discovering her voice, reclaiming her authority, and stepping into a life of alignment, impact, and vision.

But the greatest lessons weren’t from textbooks. They came through fire and refinement.

I’ve seen what’s possible when a woman finally stops settling for survival and starts investing in the deeper work of healing, rising, and becoming…and I’ll bet part of you is realizing that the version of life you’ve been living isn’t the full story.

There are new and beautiful chapters still waiting to be written.

It’s not too late. You’re not behind. You’re right on time.

What if where you are now isn’t where your story ends — but where it finally begins?

What if the grief, the gaslighting, the years of second-guessing weren’t the end of your purpose…but the soil where something stronger is starting to grow?

You’re not here just to feel better. You’re here to become whole. To walk in wisdom and discernment. To know who you are — and live like it. To rebuild your life with clarity, confidence, and God-given authority. And maybe… to turn the very things that tried to break you into the fire that fuels your calling.

That kind of healing? It’s sacred work. You aren’t meant to figure it all out alone — especially not through years of trial and error. There’s a wiser way forward.

It would be my honor to walk it with you.